TheEngineer wrote:
I did realise that this was a desk job.
The problem is though, where do you draw the line? If you make the choice to work as a freelancer for whatever reason (and I accept that for many people they do it because that is all that is on offer) then you need to accept that the nature of production is not 9-5. TV is not unique in that regard. There are many other careers that are hard to combine with a family.
Almost all the jobs I have had over the years have been shift based. This has sometimes resulted in missing out on things like parents evenings, school fetes and the like. But I have had to accept that this is the life and job I have chosen and that the benefits (only working 7 days out of 14, sick and holiday pay, pension etc) mean that you have to make sacrifices in other areas.
Of course the current state of the industry / economy has only served to make things worse.
TE
Oh no! Did your poor children not have a parent present on parents night at all?
Or, let me guess, was it your wife who was the one who did all the running around after kids and taking time off to care for them when they were sick, because your job is so inflexible that you can't be expected to do any of those things?
Of course, she had to take time off to have the kids in the first place, so you are now the main breadwinner, and her career is on hold anyway, so its the only sensible thing to do right?
That's why there are still men with families who work in production but not women.
And actually - there is no reason why much of production COULDNT and SHOULDNT be 9-5. The industry has allowed itself to get into a framework when that is not an accepted norm, but it is and can be in much of production apart from news. I once worked for a production company that locked their front door at 5.30pm and we had to work our production around it. We did. It was easy. And we even got home at night in time for tea.